Personal story till surgery
I have had problems with weight since I was 9 years old.
There is a history of weight problems in my family and
I was to be no exception.
Your diet experiences
My mother first put me on Weight-Watchers when she discovered
I was at least 2 stone heavier than the rest of my classmates.
For the next 30 plus years I have yo-yo dieted always
managing to loose weight, and always putting what I have
lost (plus more) back on. I have tried every type of
programme and diet available including, Sure Slim, Jenny
Graig, Nutri-System and slimming clubs. I have cut calories,
fat, carbs. I have tried Hypnosis, and Acu-puncture.
I even succumbed to prescription drugs like Xenecol,
and slimming pills. But nothing has worked permanently.
I have had periods of fairly normal weight (never at
my so called target) but over the past 5/6 years things
seemed to get out of control. By early 2005 I had more
or less given up. I no longer felt that I had the will
power to diet and even at my heaviest weight, 17 stone
told myself I did not care. However in October I was
doing some Internet research for work, and once again
found myself searching the net for new miracle slimming
products. I found some sites about developments in surgical
procedures for obesity. Until this time I had always
imagined any such procedures to be drastic and life threatening,
involving the wiring of teeth or the removal of stomachs.
I was surprised, and started to see a glimmer of hope
for myself. Further research brought me to the website
of EOC. By then I knew that a gastric band would be appropriate
for me and my particular eating patterns. And I knew
that I wanted to have it done by an expert. Surgery in
Britain was not an option, UK surgeons I discovered are
fairly new to this type of procedure and I heard horror
stories of complications. Also the cost was prohibitive.
I therefore opted to have my surgery carried out by Dr
Dillemans in Bruges.
The surgery
My surgery was booked for 13 th Jan 06. One week prior
to surgery I put myself of a low fat/carb eating plan
to prepare myself for whatever lay ahead. I travelled
to Bruges the day before Surgery, all arrangements had
been made by EOC who had been efficient and professional
and had left me feeling that I was in very safe hands.
Once in Bruges I had all the pre-surgery tests and consultation
with Dr Dillemans, all went very smoothly and I was scheduled
for surgery on the following morning. I don't think it
really hit me what I was doing until I lay in the pre-op
area waiting to be taken into theatre. Then I felt a
mixture of fear, relief and excitement. Perhaps finally
my weight problems would be over, and also a realisation
of the huge event that I was about to undergo and what
it would mean in terms of lifestyle change. All I remember
after surgery was feeling dazed and dis-orientated. My
throat was sore and I had a job to move, as my stomach
was very tender. Dr Dillemans came to see me to tell
me surgery had gone very well and he was pleased with
the outcome. By next morning I was able to sit up and
move about slowly. I had met a number of other British
patients the day before and there was quiet a celebratory
feeling as we swapped surgery stories. I was discharged
the same day and spent a further 48 hours recovering
in Bruges. Upon leaving Bruges I returned home to London,
and have spent a further 10 days recovering at home.
I could have gone back to work after one week, but decided
to take things easy and come to terms with the huge emotional
and lifestyle changes that were taking place.
Results after 1 month - 3 months
My thoughts post surgery are extremely positive. The procedure
was actually more involved and uncomfortable than I had
anticipated, but this has been important to me as it
has emphasised the seriousness of what I have done, and
how I need to make it work for me (it is not a magical
cure, that can wipe out 30 years of diet hell). I am
currently on the puree stage of my eating plan, and am
surprised to find that I am not hungry at all after a
very small meal. Whilst I crave some texture in my food
I realise that it is only for a further 4 weeks, and
then I can start to re-introduce ordinary food. My family
have been very supportive, and my husband has started
the Cambridge diet in-order that I don't have to cook
family meals for the moment. My friends are a different
matter, as it suited them to have a 'fat friend', and
I think it is going to take some time for them to get
used to the more restrained/moderate me. In summary I
am delighted with my surgery and particularly the ease
at which it was carried out, from deciding to go ahead
to having the procedure took 3 weeks and during that
time EOC were in constant contact reassuring me when
I got the wobbles, and being particularly warm and supportive
in Bruges at a time when I felt very frightened and vulnerable.
Would you do it over again?
I am determined to be realistic about my future weight
loss, in the past I have only been happy if I have lost
a lot of weight very quickly. With the gastric band I
will be content to loose weight slowly over a long period,
as I know this time it will never go back on.
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